Which came first? The chick or the Egg

For those in relationships, married, attached or whatever u want to name it (in love with someone), have u & your partner ever wonder who liked who first? Was it the girl who liked the guy first thus causing the guy to fall in love with the girl or was it vice versa?

Hours ago, Tat & I were debating on this... We went back to 5 years ago when we first met in school...I must say our relationship was special (to me) and how we got together wasnt the norm...

It all started with our PE lessons, one playful classmate of mine (actually all thanks to him that we are together) & the SMS that we exchanged.. (if u are interested in the details, u may refer to one of Tat's blog entry with more details - quite long ago though)

As the debate was going on, Tat insisted that it was me who liked him first, because he claims that i often looked at him when he is at the canteen. Also, every morning, i will always find his class queue on the parade square to see if he came to school (he was a bad student - Always late & skip lessons)...

Erm, well, i dont deny these actions BUT this doesnt mean i liked him first...

Here is my side of the story:
If he did not attract my attention from the beginning, i wouldnt have noticed him...
(He often intentionally knocked into me when we jogged on the track during PE lessons & being such a high flyer in school, he actually asked for my name and said my name was Alice...)

Not only that, he actually wanted to know my chinese name and he used dirty methods to find out (he peeped at my homework from behind my seat and even shouted the name in class!!) *Despicable TaT*

When we started to SMS one another, he even suggested that we have a gift exchange... *Cunning right*

Isnt it SO obvious that he wanted my attention and LoVe...wahaha.. (yet he want face...)

There are more supporting evidence (and will take ages to list them all) but he just refuses to concede defeat and insists that i liked him first...

Actually, this is really an everlasting debate because like i mentioned, our begining was unique and different from the other relationships...

Despite everlasting, we did have our conclusion:
Was it really important to have an ans to the question above???

No, of course. What matters is the LoVe u have for each other now and forever... (but i will continue to stand by my arguement that, TaT, u LiKeD me first....wahaha) - *HeeHee*

To be fair to TaT (although he is a man of PRIDE, always want face), he has been very sweet & nice to me from the start...since 5 years ago.

This is the first present from him (25.09.02*First Month Anniversary*) and he also used a very romantic way to present it to me.
The bear was hidden in one of my classmate's locker and my classmate (who is also one of his buddy) told me to collect something for Tat which he has left behind...
Locker unlocked & there the bear was, sitting in the locker with a card... i actually shouted in class coz i realised it was a plot for me...

Chidish u may think, but to me, it was a very sweet and romantic gesture :)

To TaT,
U may not have much time (due to work & studies) to think of more evidence to fight this debate, you may have little or no time (also due to work or studies) for me, you may have lose your temper at me occasionally, you may have forgotten to be romantic since u have been a BUSY man over the years or you may sometimes forget me (due to your lousy memory & u always claim u will try not to forget me), BUT i will not forget your kind & sweet gestures since the day we got together...